Month: September 2014

Toddler Tuesday: Keeping them busy when you’re busy

Toddler Tuesday: Keeping them busy when you’re busy

Toddlers love to help us. They like feeling like big kids. Although, Audrey is only 18 months, she still has chores she does but to her, they’re just games. She helps me load and unload the dishwasher. We fold laundry together. She loves doing laundry […]

Selling yourself… Yea, I’m my own PIMP

Selling yourself… Yea, I’m my own PIMP

Read this whole post before you freak out and think I am Dolly running the best little whore house in Texas. Great movie, look it up. Being a business owner means that you have to sell your self! You are your product. I don’t mean […]

Toddler Tuesday: Long Car Rides Are BORING!

Toddler Tuesday: Long Car Rides Are BORING!

If you read yesterday’s post then you know we had a long weekend. Drove 4 hours to Seattle for my grandfather’s funeral, spent the night and drove home Sunday afternoon. So much packed into such little time. Honestly, I was so excited to get home to my own bed.

There are so many posts and articles on how to travel with a toddler. Let me break it down for you parents, it’s not that glamorous! While Audrey is mostly a well behaved child, it still was not entirely fun. She did have some fits and I did argue with her. Honestly, I don’t think it would have been as easy to have drove if my parent’s didn’t have their new car with the tv in it. Thank God for the DVD player. Oh and the snacks. Lots and lots of snacks. The worst part for me was being car sick the entire time.

As we get older, we’re used to sitting for long periods of time. Not a tiny toddler. We stopped as much as possible and walked around. She would fuss and squirm trying to get out of her car seat. I was trying very hard to keep her comfortable. We had lots of toys, her baby doll, books and a mini karaoke machine. We made silly faces at each other and sang.

I have not been on a plane with her yet and am not looking forward to it when it does happen. Although, I will do everything again to make her comfortable and enjoy it.

What are your tips for traveling with small children? 

*Alyssa*

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Oh My Monday!: Counting my blessings

Oh My Monday!: Counting my blessings

Welcome back everyone to the most hated day of the week. Poor Monday, you get treated terribly. I guess I don’t have a right to hate you, you’ve never done anything to me and being home everyday, I don’t get the same resentment as others. […]

Fan Friday: Girl on the Move

Fan Friday: Girl on the Move

Wow, it’s already Friday. Today I am so excited to introduce you to Julie. She’s awesome and I love her because she loves me. Well and she loves cupcakes and is an amazing writer. Oh, and she loves my chalkboard wine glasses I made her. […]

Trial and Error of New Products: Painting Faux Pumpkins

Trial and Error of New Products: Painting Faux Pumpkins

As a business owner, I follow a lot of other business pages. Not only is a great way to network but you also can see what’s selling and for how much. I enjoy seeing other people’s failures, not because I’m cruel but because it shows they have a real passion for what they are doing. They are willing to keep working until they get it just right. I don’t like to fail but I know it’s going to happen. So I’ve made sure that when I have a new idea for something, I should practice it.
With the season turning into Autumn, I thought it would be a great idea to get some items in that theme for the shop. So I bought Audrey and I some “testers” to play with. We have these small faux pumpkins from Dollar Tree that are “carvable”. I’m not vey good at carving a real pumpkin so I was very hesitant with some Styrofoam pumpkin. So obviously my next thought was to decorate them. I’ve been seeing such fun things online about decorating pumpkins with paints, glue, and my favorite, GLITTER!
 
I tested out a jack-o-lantern style pumpkin. I’m going to have my nephew try it out.

As you can see, it’s not as tall as a soda can. Perfect for small hands. You can’t see it in the photo but I made marks on the pumpkin as my outline.
 
Then I painted in the areas I outlined with black paint. I used my acrylic enamel this time but if you are doing it with a child, then you will want to use Tempera. It’s a non-toxic paint that washes off of everything, including clothes. I didn’t like how light the stem was so I went over it with a darker brown paint.
 
I think it turned out pretty cute and I have a feeling my nephew is going to love it.
 
I can’t wait to make more and show them to you.
 
*Alyssa*
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Toddler Tuesday: Handling Life’s Boo Boo’s

Toddler Tuesday: Handling Life’s Boo Boo’s

Me: “Audrey, come here, you need to get clean panties on!”Audrey: Running around her table and giggling… Slams face into corner of chair and starts screaming.Meemaw: Grabs screaming child and tries to console her and sees a cut eye, bleeding.Me: Stomach sinks to butt and […]

I’d Like To Thank The Academy…

I’d Like To Thank The Academy…

Well this is pretty great to hear, I was nominated for a Liebster Award from Tandra over at Thriller Mom. Never thought I would get recognition for my blog, especially with it being as new as it is. This is really cool though. Thank you […]

They call me Mama…

They call me Mama…

I work, I clean, I cook, I scrub, and I fold. I kiss owies, style hair, prepare lunches and run errands. I make homemade gifts, run a business, write my blog, walk the dog, exercise to get fit and greet my man at the door each night he gets home from work. Am I perfect? No, not even close. Do I try to be? Well obviously, look at all the things I do in one day. I AM NOT MY MOTHER-IN-LAW! Which I like to remind Jake of. I love the woman but I’m not her, nor will I ever be and nor do I want to be.  She homeschooled all 3 of her sons, went to co-op with them, helped teach at our church and does the bookkeeping for her husband’s HVAC company. Honestly, I tell her all the time, it’s a miracle she hasn’t gone crazy and ran away yet. She doesn’t even drink! Yes, I am in awe of her. She’s an amazing woman. But again, I am not her. I’m not that 50’s housewife that I set out to be. While there may disagreements on this in my home, I think I work way harder than Jake. I don’t get a day off from my job. It follows me around, literally, she hangs off me while I am trying to go to the bathroom and asks me what I’m doing! 

The other day I was reading these posts about all the things we’re doing wrong as parents and one about all the things that we’re doing right as parents. Who are these people who do not know me to judge me as a parent? As far as they know, I’m not doing any of the things that “they” think I should be doing or maybe I’m doing all of them. Sadly, we are all quick to judge at one point or another. I admit I have been guilty of it and I have worked very hard not to.

I was thinking about it all weekend after reading that I am “trying too hard to be a perfect parent.” I’m not trying to be a perfect parent by anyone’s standards other than my own. If your kid looks at you in awe when you make them mac & cheese for lunch, well then you are a perfect parent. They are just so excited and so happy that you gave them something they love which makes you perfect to them. Audrey thinks I’m perfect still because I am home with her everyday. I make her laugh, feed her meals, teach her how to play fetch with the dog and cuddle her when ever she asks me to.

While men say they want a woman like their mother, it’s not true. Look, they moved away from their mommy’s for a reason! I tried really hard to be June Cleaver, for Jake. I have a set cleaning schedule I do every day. He gets home from work and I am waiting at the door to take his lunch box and give him a kiss. I make him a homemade dinner while he relaxes and plays with Audrey. Come bed time, I clean up from dinner, make his lunch and breakfast for the next day, crawl in bed, kiss him goodnight and roll over in exhaustion.  Now you’re probably think I’m lying about something here. Well here is the thing, I actually do all of those everyday, only I don’t do it to nearly as well as I would like to. Which is ok. Jake tells me all the time that my job is to take care of Audrey and myself first. I have sacrificed eating all day just to make sure he can come home to a spotless house and not have to worry about not having clean clothes. Does it make me happy when I do that? Not a flippin’ bit! I am
a mean person when I am hungry and Jake knows that I’m scary.

There will be days when you are just so exhausted you can’t do it all. THAT IS ALRIGHT!!! You don’t have to do it all to be perfect. If you and your family are all happy at the end of the day, then you were a perfect parent. Plenty of times I feel like a bad parent because I can’t give Audrey what she wants at the moment but then I remind myself, I’m not THAT parent. I don’t cave and give her something just because she cries. I know in a few years, I will hear I’m a mean mommy. I will survive it and so will she. As long as I get to be Audrey’s mom at the end of the day and get her kisses and hear I love you, that’s perfect parenting for me. So stop beating yourself up. Stop letting other’s judgment affect your confidence. If you’re doing everything you can to make your kid happy and not being an abusive parent, then you’re a perfect parent.

In the words of Taylor Swift, “And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate
Baby, I’m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake
I shake it off, I shake it off!”

*Alyssa*

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Fan Friday with Goofball Mommy

Fan Friday with Goofball Mommy

Hooray, it’s Fan Friday and today I get to introduce you to Lisa from Goofball Mommy. She cracks me up. As a stay at home mom and a blogger, it’s always fun to hear the “horror” stories from other moms and the lessons they have […]


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